It’s 8 AM and I am at sonic for a mandatory meeting and I hate my life and I had to leave my own sleepover birthday party for this
Friendly reminder that this creepy moment existed.
It makes my skin crawl how people will romanticize this.
GIRLS ACTUALLY DO THIS
WHEN WE GET REALLY HAPPY LIKE THAT
AND CANT STAY STILL
AND GET A LIL BIT EMBARRASSED ABT IT
BOYS DO IT TOO
I CAN CONFIRM
"she’s just playing hard to get"
have u ever considered that maybe she just isnt interested ???¿¿¿
Someone’s not interested in me? OPPRESSION!!!!
the goal is to love myself so much it offends other people
do you ever just listen to someone’s problem and you have nothing to say except “I’m sorry” because there is literally no way for you to help and you get sucked into a vortex of guilt and despair because you are useless
I actually like my stomach today
This is a picture of me and my two gorgeous best friends. Clearly, we all have very different body types, and you know what? None of us is healthier, prettier or happier than the others because of it.
That’s me on the left. I’m short, super petite, and have about as much muscle mass as a blob of gelatin. Despite being naturally thin, I have always been far from in shape. Not even a month ago, running two minutes at a time was a struggle—now I can run without stopping for more than a half hour.
Felicia, in the center, is probably the most active girl I know. The opposite of me, she’s one of those people that can build muscle just by looking in the direction of a dumbbell. She loves running like I do, and we’ve discussed running a 5k. She’s a big yoga enthusiast and has tried all sorts of different forms that I can’t pronounce, and she’s found free community yoga classes for us to attend together. Also, she has abs of steel, seriously. She’s helping me with my ab workouts. She’s also recently lost over 60 lbs through her active lifestyle and healthy diet.
That’s my friend Maddy on the right. She’s curvy and feminine, but she’s a beast in the gym. Strength training is her thing. She could probably bench press two of me. Not only is she incredibly strong, she’s insanely flexible and an avid pole dancer. We’re taking classes together even though she can spin circles around me on that damn pole, and look gorgeous while she does it.
My friends inspire me so much, and remind me that diversity is lovely. You don’t have to be skinny to be beautiful and confident, nor do you have to look like girls in Nike ads to be strong and fit. You don’t need to weigh a certain number, fit into a certain size, or have a certain appearance to be confident, healthy, or happy. I think that my friends prove that to me.
I’ll never be long and willowy like a supermodel, or well-built like all those fitspo girls. I’ll never look like either of my friends, and they’ll never look like me. And that’s ok, because fitness is about being the best you can be, not comparing yourself to others.
Embrace what you have, and help others embrace what they have. Fitness is funner with friends. Get them involved. Take a class, go for a walk, make a healthy dinner together. You’ll always have support and a fun activity to bond over.
this is one of the best things i’ve read on tumblr. Friends come in all different shapes, colors and sizes. May your friendships be everlasting
I just can’t NOT reblog this. Everyone should read it.
This was absolutely amazing, well worth the time to read, wow. Beautiful.
m3d1c101 said: my friend always makes rape and sexist jokes against women and when i ask him to stop he says "can't you just take a joke?" i tell him it's not funny and he ignores me. he's a really good friend of mine and he doesn't normally act like an asshole (he's like a big brother to me and a good friend of my family) but i think he does it because it angers me and my female friends. any suggestions on how to make this stop without ending the friendship?
Why would you want to be friends with someone who makes triggering, bigoted jokes for the sole purpose of angering you?????
Like, I don’t care how good a friend you say he is outside of his sexism, because good friends don’t intentionally hurt each other, and if a good person is told by their friends that something they are doing is hurting them, they would STOP DOING IT.
And a person who not only makes rape jokes, but continues to make rape jokes and defend themselves after being asked to stop is an unsafe person, since it proves that they don’t take rape seriously or see it as a real issue.
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"its a metaphor, you see—you put the killing thing right between your teeth, but you dont give it the power to do its killing"